Say Their Name

When someone we love dies by suicide, the silence can feel as heavy as the loss itself. Say their name. Honor the life they lived. Let their family know they are not forgotten — and not alone.

How it works

Tell us about your loved one. You Matter, Inc. will mail a postcard or care package to a member of their immediate family — a small, tangible reminder that the world has not stopped saying their name. Care packages cost $6–$8 to mail, plus the products inside; we send them whether or not anyone donates, and any gift toward postage helps us reach one more family. Donate here.

Submit a name

About you

Your first name *

Your last name *

Your email * We'll send a confirmation here.

Your relationship to recipient

Their loved one

First name of the loved one who died *

Last name of the loved one *

Obituary or funeral home link Optional, but helpful for our records.

Date of loss Optional.

Mail the care package to

Recipient's first name *

Recipient's last name *

Recipient's relationship to your loved one *

Street address *

City, State, ZIP *

Anything else you'd like us to know

Tell us about your loved one (or anything you'd like to share) We read every word. It means a lot to us.

Where did you hear about us?

You don't have to carry their memory alone. We will carry it with you.